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👒💖2023 Afternoon Tea party outfit ideas! 27 flattering looks + tips!

👒💖2023 Afternoon Tea party outfit ideas! 27 flattering looks + tips!

Ladies, hope you get excited as I’m going to talk all about afternoon tea party ideas!

This is a bold statement but I truly think no girl can resist the dreaminess of the English tea party.

Despite it being a perfect reason for us to dust out our fancy dresses and get dressed up, this is such a precious moment to catch up with your family and girlfriends for a relaxing afternoon.

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When it comes to those cottage core decorations, refreshing tea, and scrumptious scones, tea parties truly deserve a well-planned ensemble for some insta-worthy photoshoots.

But here’s the thing ladies, tea party attire can be really confusing. What to wear for a formal tea party and a casual one has such a BIG difference.

That said, I’ve got your back! Ahead are the 27 tea party outfit ideas that help you stay put together.

Hope you girls enjoy it!


When it comes to a traditional English tea party, it’s all about dressing elegantly in modest wear.

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That said, you don’t want to look revealing with a low-neckline dress or a backless top.

Opt for a midi dress together with a structured bag to complete your look instead.

As for footwear, closed-toe heels are preferred.

And if you want to elevate this classy look, team the dress with a short jacket that can never go wrong.

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While many people aren’t aware, the bolero jacket is surprisingly body-flattering.

Featuring the cropped design, not only it can contour the long torso, which can accentuate the high waist area, and create hourglass figures for you.

As a petite girl, a bolero jacket just works wonders!


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If you are invited to a casual tea party, especially the poolside or garden one, feel free to dress down your look with casual wear (That also means you can show more skin!).

Speaking of the hue of the dress, springy pastel hues have always been popular for parties.

If you are not used to wearing pastel hues daily, well, tea parties are the impeccable timing for you to experiment with all sorts of playful shades.

A wide-beam white sun hat with a mint tube dress and nude heels? HELL YES.


Time has changed and when it comes to tea party attire, the standard feminine floral dress look is no longer the only option!

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If you are attending a casual party and you want to add a dash of fashion to your ensemble, teaming your white vest with flared dress pants just looks one-of-a-kind.

To take this killer look to another level, put on cat-eye sunglasses and now you are sure to turn heads.

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Need I say more? This outfit is as chic as it looks feminine and sophisticated.

Lemme tell you, women in their 30s and 40s totally rock this look. And let’s not forget slip in those tasteful velvet chunky heels to complete the look!

Tea party fashion comes and goes. When it comes to dressing length, the dress code seems more flexible these days.

If you are not attending a formal tea party, you may get away with a dress slightly above knee length!

That said, again, the mini dress is not really appropriate in most circumstances.

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👒💖15 tea party bridal shower outfits! Cute real-life looks!


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If you are attending a winter afternoon tea party or the one in the hotel, make sure you wear a cape or bolero jacket with you.

While a long-sleeved coat and bolero jacket work, drape the long scarf over a tube dress if you want a billowy silhouette.

It just looks so feminine and flattering in a sophisticated way.


When it comes to a traditional English tea party, hats play such a big role.

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In the past, afternoon tea parties often take place outdoors so the ladies will wear a giant hat to avoid sunburn and stay elegant.

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I’m glad that this tradition hasn’t lost its charm as it’s just too much fun to wear a statement hat for parties.

For a casual look, a wide-beam sun hat is more than enough.

aesthetic straw hat idea tea party

But if you want to bring your A-game, go for all the vibrant hues and modern shapes to stand out from the crowd.


ALWAYS wear your hat sideways so it can open up your face and contour the face line!

By the way, if you wonder how those girls can wear heels on the grass perfectly, these heel protectors are the secret.

Not gonna say too much about it as I know many of you got one already.


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I know it seems over the top but yes, you may need to wear gloves when it comes to a formal afternoon party.

In the past, wearing gloves was mainly for protection but nowadays, it’s more of a decoration.

Featuring the lace detailing, it just elevates the look and makes you appear to be more doll-like.

Pair a white silk glove with a ruffle puff-sleeve dress, I just feel like I am an elegant lady from the 1950s.

The retro vibes are real.

If you need a pair of vintage, I suggest you NOT waste money on those designer pieces that cost a few hundred.

Such a pain.

I’ve found a great pair of vintage gloves with all 5-star reviews from Amazon. Check these cuties out!


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Admit it, sometimes we just need a dash of whimsy in life and that includes a vintage tea party look.

For a Great Gatsby style, wear a cloche hat with a draping dress, Mary Jane shoes, and signature long pearl necklaces that can never go wrong.

If you are feeling dramatic today, I’ll urge you to bring lace parasols together, it just looks irresistibly ravishing.

And if you want some 30s flare, a traditional puff-sleeve tea dress is always a tasteful choice.

Teaming it with dainty kitten heel pumps, that just look sleek and unique at the same time.

By the way, this cloche hat and Ivory parasol are to die for.

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This is so random… BUT

hey ladies, why not quickly do an affirmation and feel instantly better?

This new year, I’m trying not only to share fashion tips but come up with ways to instill body positivity in all women who are reading my articles – aka YOU!

Instead of just reading it, say it loud or murmur the quotes (if you are in public) to maximize the effect.

Ready? Here we go.

I love my body. She is my forever home and sanctuary.

Sassy isn’t a shape, it’s an attitude.

Work out because I love my body – not because I hate it.

I can love myself and change my body at the same time. No guilt about that.

It is completely normal to have tummy rolls. I come to realize that social media isn’t showing the reality… at all.

My happiest moments in life had nothing to do with the way my body looked.

I don’t have to be pretty like her, I can be pretty like …ME.

I AM perfect imperfection.

What are your thoughts on that? I hope that makes you feel better (as you deserved).

Please help me pass the body positivity message in your community. #womenhelpwomen

Alright, now keep on reading!


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Running out of time and wanting to look put together with minimal effort? A monochromatic look is always fail-proof.

Wearing similar hues makes your figure look more united and creates a slim and tall frame visually.

As a petite girl, a black high-waist jumpsuit with black heels just elongates my legs to another level. BIG LOVE.

Plus, monotones are just effortlessly cool and modern.

If you want to add a boyish twist in dusty pink, opt for a fitted sleeveless waistcoat, and instantly you look like a boss lady.

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If you think all the tea parties are elegant and poised, well, think again!

When it comes to the mad hatter tea party, this Alice in the Wonderland theme show is obviously asking you to bring up your A-game.

So ladies, leave your crafty bowler hat at home and switch it for a funky pink giant hat as a statement piece.

To echo the wildness of the hat, go for a cool waistcoat or a leopard dress one-piece just works wonders.

Remember, always wear according to the dress code.

You don’t want to embarrass yourself with a darling lace dress while all the others are dressing fun and whimsy!

More updated tea party inspo below!

I’m obsessed with this look! Modern yet dreamy!
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So ladies, here are the 27 tea party outfit ideas!

Whether you call it afternoon tea, high tea, or low tea, tea parties are always a sheer delight.

I’m truly glad that they are back in style now and it’s just a delight to see all the ladies wearing aesthetic dresses and hats.

Here’s a quick recap of the looks:

  • Classy tea party outfit ideas
  • Casual tea garden party outfit ideas
  • The modern tea party outfit looks
  • Always bring a cape with you in winter
  • Get a bold statement with the hat
  • Wear gloves for the formal afternoon tea parties
  • Get a retro taste with a vintage tea dress
  • Look put-together in a monochromatic look
  • Go fun & whimsy for a mad hatter tea party

By the way ladies, springtime is not only for tea parties but also for picnics!

If you are interested in picnic outfit ideas to wear all year round, here are the 11 outfits that will get you inspired!

Hope you like it!

For more styling tips, check out the article below!

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  1. Michelle White says:

    Finally an article that actually DISCUSS the tea party attire instead of throwing all photos without saying anything… Thanks