Followed by the increased popularity of bondage sex, the BDSM community has flourished these days. If you are reading this, high chance you are curious about the community or perhaps want to get your feet wet with a play party or a munch. So you’ve made your decision to join one, but here’s a question as a newbie: What to wear to munch, kinky party, or fetish club?
The fact is, the different party has different dress code and you certainly don’t want to mix that up. But no worries ladies, I’ve got your back. Below, I’ve gathered 28 outfit ideas for every occasion, enjoy!
1. What to wear to a munch? Casual look
If you’re reading it, high chance you already know what a munch is. In short, that’s a casual gathering who everyone shares the same interest – BDSM or all sort of fetish. It’s like an ice-breaking public gathering for the BDSM newbies to get to know each other and 99.9% a munch DOESN’T involve any sexual activities. Think like a perfectly normal casual beer drink night or a lunch.
With that said, you want to dress NORMAL and casual. Whether that’s a round neck top with jeans or a tunic midi dress, they are all doable.
So please leave your leash at home – it’s not the right timing.
2. Wear choker as a hint of kink
As one of the universally appropriate items, you just can’t go wrong with a choker. But again, always pick the right one for a different setting.
As a sexual hint, it’s common to see people wearing a subtle, simple choker for the munch. Or else, a studded bracelet is popular as well.
And if we are talking about the kink play party, everyone is bringing their A-game. So yes, I suggest you go all-in with a statement spike collar. I’m sure you are not the only one wearing this at the party.
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3. What to wear to a dungeon party? Jumpsuit
If you are joining the dungeon party for the first time and you aren’t ready for something too wild, consider a super body-hugging jumpsuit that showcases your curves in the right place! To complete the look, go for the sexy high heels and chain belt as a hottie look.
While a black jumpsuit is forgiving, I’d choose the red one. After all, it’s scientifically proven that red boosts our sexual attractiveness. If I am going to a kink party, I’d take that!
4. What to wear to a fetish club? Corset
Speaking of some classic BDSM looks, the corset has to be top of the list. As it has now also become a fashion piece, there are tons of different designs out there.
If you are picky about your get-up, stay away from the “comfy” corset with soft fabric and black elastic waistband – it fails to hold the shape and make you look bulkier on the waist area. Instead, opt for the structured one that really showcases the hourglass figure.
With the traditional corset, the vibes are totally different and you just feel easier to get in the MOOD.
5. Sexy school girl as a failproof look
Of course, uniforms are such failproof for the play party. As the most popular choice, the sexy school girl costumes can always make men (and women) swoon.
To make sure you showcase the boobs in the best possible way, I’ve handpicked this hot selling set from Amazon. The front closure has strong support to fit any size of the chest. Another thing I like is this brand comes with the regular size and plus size, which is really sweet! Check them out.
6. How to dress up kinky? Fishnet tights
Want to dress kinky and show your legs to your best advantage? Fishnet tights are godsent. And of course, half of the fun is about ripping the tights!
While you can wear your regular fishnet tights, I thought it will be more fun to wear the open butt tights. You know, this kind of design is just way more convenient to get things done and makes you feel super horny.
Together with a pair of high heels, this look is a 10/10.
7. Wear fishnet bodysuit to fetish club
And if you want to go all-in with fishnet, perhaps it’s time to get out of your comfort zone and try fishnet bodystockings! He/she/ They just can’t control but touch you all over the place. Delicious as hell.
8. Make sure your underwear ON POINT
If you don’t plan to wear the lingerie set, the bottom line here is to pick the right underwear!
This “Daddy’s lil f toy” will make sure you two going at it like a rabbit. Thank me later.
If you prefer more on the classic feminine one, V-back lace underwear will play the tricks. It just contours the bum to the best possible shape.
9. Dress kinky and cute for the BDSM clubbing night
For the baby or diaper Lover!
Well, I’m sure this “I love daddy” bodysuit will keep you busy for the party the whole night. That’s such a big turn-on for many people!
10. What shoes to wear for dungeon party?
There are tons of footwear choices but nothing is more symbolic than thigh-high heel boots. Not only do they look sexy and leg-elongating, they just go well with all kinds of uniforms and looks. Schoolgirl mini kilt and boots are the impeccable choice.
And if you are on the dominant side, go for the studded combat boots.
These high platform ones make sure you are easy to walk the whole night!
11. Kinky tattoo stickers to spice up the BDSM night
A “Punish Me” and “F-hole“ tattoo is sure to make you feel tenfolds hornier. Stand out at the party!
12. Pheromone perfume for dungeon party as a BOOST
Last but not least, if you want to ensure you will have a wild play party night ahead, spray yourself with the pheromone perfume. If you are reading this, high chance you already know this and probably using it. But in case some of you don’t know, pheromones are the undetectable scent that our bodies nurture to invoke sexual desire from others. I always thought it’s a scam until I read through the reviews from Amazon and try it myself.
So yes, it WORKS.
There are a ton of pheromone perfume out there but this one from Pure instinct is so far the best. Check out the Amazon reviews for all those crazy stories! Trust me, you wanna know.
So there you go – the 28 outfit ideas if you wonder what to wear to a fetish club, kink play party, and a dungeon! Basically, the choices are endless. There are big dos and don’ts in attire, it’s all about wearing the clothes that you truly love so you can carry them with confidence and attractiveness! Now go pin down the right get-up and have fun!
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