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*2023* 28 Black girl Valentines day 28 outfits + 1 secret weapon!

*2023* 28 Black girl Valentines day 28 outfits + 1 secret weapon!

Need a good excuse to get dressed and look all glam up? well, nothing is better than a darling Valentine’s Day.

To express the romance through your looks, I’ve gathered 10 Valentine’s Day outfit tips for black girls.

Believe it or not, dark skin just brings out the best in some hues and boosts the aesthetic of the style tenfolds.

From classy feminine style to the high street look, I’ve got you all covered.

By the way, stay till the end and download the free download to boost your success rate.

That questions list can make your bonding with your date WAY DEEPER.

Whether you are a gal or a guy reading this, you will need that!

That said, I include one of my secret weapons at the end of the article, enjoy my gorgeous!


Believe it or not, now is 2023 and there’s still NOT ENOUGH black women’s fashion content around Pinterest and other places on the internet …at all.

So ladies, before reading the outfit inspo, please help pin the pin below & support black girl ladies♥! THANKS LOVE X


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A red dress is an ultimate killer. No doubt at all.

First thing first, a red dress is scientifically proven to boost your sexual attractiveness to men, you know, the primal biological reason, it is just somehow irresistible to men.

Plus, pulling off the bold red dress exude a sense of confidence and sassiness which is absolutely perfect for ValentineDay.

And guess what, as a high saturation sharp hue, it looks extra amazing on dark skin due to the nice color contrast and brightens up your look as a whole.

So ladies, if you want to bring an A-game and enjoy a wild night, definitely go for a classic red dress with nude heels.

2. Play with silk for a glamourous Valentines Day look

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The second tip, I’d say play with textures. If you want to dress up for Valentine’s day, let’s not wear the cotton dress like your errands day.

Think shimmering yet comfy fabric like silk to glam up your style and you’ll be bound to feel fabulous.

Whenever I wear this darling, I just feel so spoiled and feminine.

By the way, your partner will probably stop touching you! This fabric is incredibly smooth and shall I say – touchable.

That said, while the silk dress is expensive for a good reason, I’ll go for the satin dress instead – it is just way more affordable with a similar effect!

3. Pick a flattering neckline for Valentine’s Day

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The third tip is the neckline. As a girl with chubby cheeks, I pay attention to the necklines and find them incredibly helpful.

I’d definitely avoid the round neckline as that makes my face looks even rounder.

Instead, the V neck and off-shoulder neck can elongate the face and neck area and makes us look slimmer visually.

So yes, if you want to look sexy without showing too much, a delicate off-shoulder dress will definitely serve you right.

4. Make a statement glitter dress on Valentine’s Day

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Whether you’re 18 or 42, a sequin dress is never too much for you.

I mean, what else can make you look more festive and dazzling than a midi skirt with sequin layers?

While the head-to-toe sequin dress can be more tricky to handle, you can always opt for the skirt and dark hues to balance out the boldness.

Again, the glitter just looks flattering to dark skin and my favorite piece is an all-black sequin bodycon dress.

Whenever I wear it, I receive compliments.

5. Keep classy and casual in a sweater dress

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Alright ladies, let’s get practical.

As Valentine’s Day is more on the chilly side, you may want something that can give you that extra warmth.

If you aren’t a fan of wearing a sleeveless dress and a big coat, the sweater dress is another lovely choice.

That said, I will swap out the A-line sweater dress for the body-hugging one for a sophisticated, womanly style.

To echos the festive vibes, a nude pink sweater dress with a nice clutch just make you look extra dazzling.

7. Stay cute with a French beret

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Wanna look cute on Valentine’s Day? Let’s not forget to finish up your winter look with a nice hat.

I love all sorts of hats but a beret is my favorite really. To contour my face, I will wear it slant to elongate my face.

Some girls may wonder what hairstyle looks best with a beret. That really depends.

I love putting my face to one side so I can open up my face a little bit.

I think that’s a failproof way to look good – try it out!

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Get Rare Beauty blush on Sephora ♡
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Get Milk makeup liquid bronzer on Sephora ♡
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Get the Best skin ever concealer on Sephora ♡ (The number of shades is INSANE)
Get a FENTY BEAUTY contour stick on Sephora ♡ (This sold quickly!)

8. When in doubt, go for a co-ord set

If you want to look flattering with minimal effort on Valentine’s Day, throw yourself a nice co-ord set and you’ll never feel anything missing from your outfit.

You can call it lazy but I will call it smart!

A Chanel-inspired tweed jacket and skirt co-ord set with thigh-high boots? This combo is unbeatable.

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For the girls who want to maximize the leg slimming effect, switch out the bodycon skirt for the fishtail skirt.

The flared fabrics can always make our legs appear slimmer in comparison. It’s such an underrated tip, I just seldom heard people talking about that.

Or else, go bold with a baby pink bodycon set that screams “I’ve got a style and I KNOW it”. How’s that?

9. Tight high boots are the hottest choice on valentines Day

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Of course, thigh-high and knee-high boots for winter.

As a petite girl, this is probably the most flattering pair of shoes I’ve owned. I will choose the pointy-toe design to maximize the contouring effect.

The charm about high boots is it just goes well with EVERYTHING.

Whether you want to stay classy with a sweater dress or spice it up with a boyfriend’s white shirt, it just plays tricks.

This is so random… BUT

hey ladies, why not quickly do an affirmation and feel instantly better?

This new year, I’m trying not only to share fashion tips but come up with ways to instill body positivity in all women who are reading my articles – aka YOU!

Instead of just reading it, say it loud or murmur the quotes (if you are in public) to maximize the effect.

Ready? Here we go.

I love my body. She is my forever home and sanctuary.

Sassy isn’t a shape, it’s an attitude.

Work out because I love my body – not because I hate it.

I can love myself and change my body at the same time. No guilt about that.

It is completely normal to have tummy rolls. I come to realize that social media isn’t showing the reality… at all.

My happiest moments in life had nothing to do with the way my body looked.

I don’t have to be pretty like her, I can be pretty like …ME.

I AM perfect imperfection.

What are your thoughts on that? I hope that makes you feel better (as you deserved).

Please help me pass the body positivity message in your community. #womenhelpwomen

Alright, now keep on reading!

9. Pheromone Perfume as the secret weapon (Don’t tell anyone!)

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So you guys have a nice and romantic dinner, what’s next? Well, what about a hot wild night?

To ensure things go (extra) well and you are the irresistible goddess that night, perfume is the secret weapon.

No, I don’t mean the regular high-end perfume, I am especially saying the perfume with pheromone.

In short, a pheromone is a kind of hormone that triggers men’s sexual desire. It’s unscented but it’s probably more powerful than you think.

Don’t judge, sometimes I do need some extra boost to ensure I have a satisfying night and I know I am not the only one.

It’s shocking to know this perfume generates 10 times way clicks than all my other recommended products combined on the entire website lol I guess the demand is real here.

I only recommend this Pheromone perfume on Amazon. I’ve tried other brands in the past few years and I think this one works the BEST.

Go get one ladies, whether you’re single or occupied, you will need it at some point in time!

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Click the shop link ONLY if you’re the goal-setter! Enjoy!!


  • Burt’s Bees 100% Natural Moisturising Lip Balm – keep your lips pleasant to look at
  • Mint Dental Floss after lunch/ dinner ( You’ll need this)
  • Phone charger
  • Bandages for your feet pain if you are wearing heels 3M Nexcare Bandages is the only brand that has legit stronghold)
  • Beautiful smile (I know it’s cliche but I just can’t help typing it out!)
  • Pheromone perfume – Just in case you miss that out

I hope this checklist helps!


So ladies, above are Valentine’s Day outfit tips for black girls.

What do you think about these tips? I hope you find it useful!

Whenever I search the outfit tips, I just realize most of the websites focus almost on white girls’ photos and so I thought I should make one dedicated to my black queens♥♥♥

Please kindly re-pin the pin below so more black girls can enjoy the content dedicated to them♥ Would really appreciate that!

By the way, if you are interested in more styling tips, I’m sure you will find the articles below useful! See you there ladies!

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