Hey besties, this is one of those posts that feels different to write, isn’t it?
We talk about party outfits and vacation looks and all the fun stuff, but sometimes fashion intersects with real life in ways that are a little more delicate.
A celebration of life—whether it’s for a loved one, a friend’s family member, or someone you want to honor—comes with a lot of emotions, and figuring out what to wear can feel like just one more thing to stress about when you’re already carrying so much.
So let’s talk about it gently.
The goal here isn’t to be trendy or to stand out.
It’s to feel comfortable, to show respect, and to honor the person being remembered in a way that feels authentic to you and appropriate for the occasion. I’ve got you, bestie.
1. First things first: read the room (or the invite)
Celebrations of life are different from traditional funerals.
They’re often less formal, more personalized, and focused on celebrating the person’s actual life rather than just mourning the loss.
Some families ask guests to wear the person’s favorite color. Some want bright, joyful attire. Others prefer something more subdued.
✨ Tip: If there’s an invitation or a family member you can ask, DO IT. “Is there anything specific the family would like us to wear?” is a completely normal and appreciated question. It shows you care.
❤️Girl’s fashion hack #1:
Use nail polish clear coat on fraying thread ends to stop further unraveling until you can properly repair the item!
2. The classic dark option – respectful and timeless
If you’re unsure, you genuinely cannot go wrong with dark, respectful attire. Think navy, charcoal, deep forest green, or classic black.
A simple dark dress, a button-down with dark slacks, or a dark jumpsuit all work beautifully.
The vibe: Respectful, understated, lets the focus stay on the memories being shared. It’s the sartorial equivalent of a warm hug—comforting, familiar, and appropriate.
✨ Tip: Choose fabrics that feel soft and comforting. Cashmere, soft cotton, gentle knits. You’ll be hugging people, maybe crying, definitely standing for a while. Comfort matters.
❤️Girl’s fashion hack #2:
Prevent button-down shirts from gapping between buttons by using double-sided fashion tape <3
3. Soft, muted tones – gentle and warm
Maybe all-black feels too stark or not quite right for the person being remembered.
Soft, muted tones like dove gray, lavender, dusty blue, or cream can be absolutely beautiful for a celebration of life.
They’re respectful without being severe, gentle without being somber.
The vibe: Like a soft sunrise. Gentle, warm, and quietly hopeful. Perfect for honoring someone who brought calm and kindness into the world.
❤️Girl’s fashion hack #3:Rub clear deodorant on the inside hem of pants/skirts to prevent thigh chafing. ❤️
4. The person’s favorite color – wearing them close
Okay this one makes me emotional just thinking about it.
If the person had a signature color—maybe they always wore red lipstick, or lived in yellow, or had a thing for emerald green—wearing that color is such a beautiful tribute.
The vibe: You’re carrying a piece of them with you. It’s personal, it’s intentional, and it’ll make the family smile through their tears.
I’ve seen celebrations where everyone wore the person’s favorite color and the photos are just stunning because you can feel the love.
✨ Tip: If you’re nervous about wearing a bright color, incorporate it in smaller ways—a scarf, a piece of jewelry, a pocket square. Still meaningful, still you.
❤️Girl’s fashion hack #4:Use rolled-up magazine pages to maintain boot shape when storing – truly work wonders imo lol
5. Elevated casual – comfy but put-together
Celebrations of life often happen in backyards, community centers, parks, or people’s homes.
You don’t need a stiff suit or a formal gown. Elevated casual is the route here.
Think nice dark jeans with a silk blouse. A knit dress with low heels or nice flats. Dark trousers with a soft sweater.
You want to look like you made an effort—because you’re showing up for someone—but you also want to be able to sit on a couch, hug freely, and maybe help with setup or cleanup without worrying about your outfit.
The vibe: “I dressed up because this matters, but I’m also here to actually BE here.”
❤️Girl’s fashion hack #5:
Stretch tight shoes by wearing them with thick socks and blowing them with a hairdryer!
6. Florals and nature-inspired pieces – celebrating life literally
For someone who loved gardening, the outdoors, or just found joy in nature, florals can be a beautiful choice.
A floral dress, a shirt with botanical prints, or nature-inspired jewelry all carry that symbolism of growth, beauty, and the cycles of life.
The vibe: Honoring the beauty they saw in the world. It’s hopeful, it’s personal, and it connects to something larger.
❤️Girl’s fashion hack #6:
Quick fix – Brighten yellowed white clothing by soaking in a solution of lemon juice and hot water!
7. Cultural and religious considerations – honor the traditions
Depending on the family’s background, there may be specific traditions or expectations around mourning attire.
In some cultures, white is the color of mourning.
In others, bright colors are actually preferred because they celebrate the person’s release from this life.
✨ Tip: If you’re attending a celebration for a friend from a different cultural background, it’s totally okay to ask or do a little research.
“I want to be respectful—is there anything I should know about what to wear?” shows deep care.
❤️Girl’s fashion hack #7:
Whenever I feel bloated, I’ll always use a rubber band to loop through a button hole and around the button for a temporary fix to pants that are too tight!
8. Layering pieces – practical and comforting
Here’s something nobody talks about: celebrations of life can be LONG.
There’s the service, then the gathering, then the stories, then the tears, then the laughs.
Temperatures change. Emotions change.
Having a layering piece—a soft cardigan, a nice blazer, a pashmina—gives you flexibility.
The vibe: Prepared, comfortable, and able to stay as long as you’re needed. Plus, sometimes a soft layer feels like a little armor when you’re navigating hard emotions.
❤️ Girl’s fashion hack#8: Keep Jewelry Organized While Traveling hackThread necklaces through drinking straws to prevent tangling – simply clasp the necklace and thread the chain through a straw.
9. Jewelry with meaning – wear something that connects
If you have a piece of jewelry that reminds you of the person—maybe something they gave you, or something that connects to a memory—wear it.
A locket, a simple ring, a watch they loved.
It’s like having them with you in a tangible way.
The vibe: Personal, intentional, quietly powerful. You don’t have to announce it; you’ll know it’s there.
What to avoid, bestie:
Anything that requires constant adjustment – You want to be present, not pulling at straps or fixing zippers.
Anything too trendy or flashy – This isn’t the time for statement pieces that distract.
Overly casual items – Save the ripped jeans and graphic tees for another day.
Uncomfortable shoes – You’ll be standing, walking, maybe helping. Please don’t torture your feet.
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FINAL THOUGHTS:
At the end of the day, what you wear matters so much less than the fact that you SHOWED UP.
Being there—with your arms open for hugs, your ears ready for stories, your presence as a comfort—that’s what they’ll remember.
Not your outfit. You.
So wear something that makes you feel like you can breathe, something that feels like YOU, something that honors the moment without adding to your stress.
And then just be there. That’s enough. That’s everything.
Sending you so muchhhh love. 🤍
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