❤️10 steps to wash your hair *Oddly specific things to avoid!*❤️

Hey bestie, let’s talk about something we ALL do but probably don’t do RIGHT: washing our hair. I know, I know—it seems basic.

Wet hair, shampoo, rinse, repeat, done. But here’s the tea: the way you wash your hair can literally make the difference between “meh” hair days and “OMG your hair looks amazing” hair days.

I’ve gathered the CORRECT steps to wash your hair like a professional, plus some tips that’ll change your life (and your hair).

Let’s get into it pretty girlies <333

Step 1: BRUSH BEFORE YOU WET

Okay this is the step everyone skips and it’s actually SO important. Before you even step in the shower, take a minute to gently brush your hair from roots to ends.

This removes loose hairs, detangles knots, and distributes your natural scalp oils down the strands so they don’t get stripped too aggressively in the shower.

It also means less tangling and breakage when your hair is wet and vulnerble.

✨ Tip: Use a wide-tooth comb or a wet brush if your hair is prone to breakage.

Be gentle—yanking through knots damages hair before you even start washing.

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Step 2: RINSE THOROUGHLY WITH WARM WATER

Get your hair completely saturated with WARM (not hot) water.

Hot water strips natural oils and can leave your scalp dry and irritated.

Warm water helps open the cuticle just enough to let your products penetrate without causing damage.

Spend a good minute or two just letting water run through your hair, making sure it’s soaked from root to tip.

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Step 3: SHAMPOO YOUR SCALP, NOT YOUR ENDS

Here’s the biggest mistake people make: putting shampoo all over their hair.

Shampoo is for your SCALP—it’s designed to remove oil, dirt, and product buildup from where it actually accumulates.

Your ends are the oldest, driest part of your hair and don’t need that kind of stripping.

How to do it: Dispense shampoo into your palms, rub them together, then focus on your scalp. Use your fingertips (not nails!) to massage in small, circular motions.

Work up a lather and let it run through the rest of your hair as you rinse—that’s more than enough cleansing for your ends.

✨ Tip: If you have oily scalp but dry ends, this technique is LITERALLY life-changing. You’re welcome <333

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Step 4: RINSE AND REPEAT (ONLY IF NEEDED)

You know how bottles say “lather, rinse, repeat”? That’s not always necessary.

If you wash your hair daily or every other day, one shampoo is usually enough.

But if you go several days between washes, use heavy styling products, or have very oily hair, a second shampoo can help .

How to know: If your first shampoo didn’t lather much (because it was breaking down buildup), go for a second round. You’ll notice way more bubbles the second time.

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Step 5: CONDITION YOUR MID-LENGTHS TO ENDS

Now it’s time for conditioner—and it’s the opposite of shampoo.

Conditioner is for your ENDS, not your scalp. Applying conditioner to your roots can weigh hair down and make it look greasy faster.

Focus on the mid-lengths to ends, where hair is oldest and needs moisture mostTT <3

How to do it: Squeeze out excess water first (wet hair repels conditioner), then apply conditioner from about ear level down.

Use a wide-tooth comb to distribute it evenly and detangle gently. Let it sit for 2-5 minutes while you do other shower things.

✨ Tip: For extra hydration, twist your hair into a loose bun or clip while you let the conditioner soak in. The heat helps it penetrate better.

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Stretch tight shoes by wearing them with thick socks and blowing them with a hairdryer!

Step 6: RINSE WITH COOL WATER

This is the secret to SHINE.

After you’ve let the conditioner do its thing, rinse with COOL (not cold, you don’t have to suffer) water.

Cool water helps seal the hair cuticle, locking in moisture and giving you that glossy, reflective finish.

It also helps reduce frizz and makes your hair look smoother overall.

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Step 7: THE TOWEL TRICK – DON’T RUB!

Okay bestie, listen: RUBBING your wet hair with a towel causes friction, which leads to frizz, breakage, and damage.

Wet hair is at its most fragile state—treat it like expensive silk, not a bath mat.

How to do it: Gently squeeze excess water out with your hands first.

Then wrap your hair in a microfiber towel or an old cotton t-shirt (yes, a t-shirt works better than a regular towel) and let it absorb moisture for 10-15 minutes.

No rubbing, no twisting, no aggressive towel turbans.

✨ Tip: Microfiber towels are GAME CHANGERS. They absorb more water faster with less friction. Put one on your wish list immediately.

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Step 8: DETANGLE WITH CARE

After you’ve blotted excess water, use a wide-tooth comb or a wet brush to gently detangle starting from the ENDS and working your way up.

Never start at the roots—you’ll just push tangles down and create more knots and breakage.

✨ Tip: Apply a leave-in conditioner or detangling spray first for extra slip. Your hair will thank you.

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Step 9: AIR DRY OR HEAT PROTECT

If you’re air drying, great! Just leave it alone and let nature do its thing.

If you’re using heat tools, make sure you apply a HEAT PROTECTANT first.

Every single time. No exceptions. Heat damage is real and it’s permanent until you cut it off.

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Step 10:DON’T FORGET YOUR SCALP

Healthy hair starts with a healthy scalp.

Once a week or so, give yourself a proper scalp massage while shampooing to stimulate blood flow, which promotes hair growth.

You can also use a scalp scrub or treatment occasionally to remove buildup.

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BONUS TIPS FOR HAIR WASHING SUCCESS:

• Don’t wash every day. Most hair types do better with 2-3 washes per week. Over-washing strips natural oils and can actually increase oil production as your scalp tries to compensate.
• Brush before bed. If you wash at night, make sure hair is completely dry before sleeping. Wet hair is fragile and sleeping on it causes breakage and weird dents.
• Silk pillowcases aren’t just for skincare—they reduce friction on your hair too.
• Clarify occasionally. If you use lots of products, a clarifying shampoo once every few weeks removes buildup that regular shampoo misses.
• Listen to your hair. If it feels dry, skip a wash or add more conditioner. If it feels greasy, focus shampoo on scalp and maybe wash more frequently. Your hair tells you what it needs.

Final Thoughts:

Washing your hair seems simple, but those little tweaks—brushing first, focusing shampoo on scalp, conditioning only ends, rinsing cool, towel-drying gently—add up to MAJOR differences over time.

Your hair is literally your crown, and it deserves to be treated like one.

Now go forth and wash like the queen you are. 💁‍♀️✨🧴